Relaxed dressing is perfect for summer, find the relaxation that suits you!

Summer is here, of course you have to dress clean and comfortable. Wear your own fashion style.

You must have seen such people. They don't dress complicatedly, don't follow the trend, and don't "hold up".

There are no flamboyant colors, no exaggerated designs, but there is a relaxing temperament from head to toe.

They are like a breeze in the air, very quiet, but always present.

Nowadays, we are used to calling this state of dressing "relaxed".

But "relaxed" does not mean indifferent, not "anything goes", and not "born to wear".

It is a choice, a judgment, and a certainty that I know what I am doing. It's not that they don't care what they wear, but they don't need to rely on what they wear to prove themselves.

• Relaxed is not loose, but restraint from "holding".

Many people equate relaxation with being unkempt or too lazy to dress up, but the real relaxed people are precisely those who know how to "tighten up".

They are not incapable of matching, but they know when to stop.

They no longer need to wear high waists to "look thin" or wear large logos to "look noble". They choose to wear clothes that make them comfortable and have texture - not only for appearance, but also for status.

Phoebe Philo is a representative of this aesthetic philosophy. Her designs during the Celine period and her current eponymous brand are never designed for styling, but for "clothes can serve a real woman well".

High-quality neutral colors, restrained tailoring, and low-key structure firmly practice the concept of less is more.

This is the truth of relaxation. It is not about choosing nothing, but choosing restraint. It seems to be understated, but every step is under control.

• Their outfits are beautiful because they live a good life.

If you observe carefully, you will find that women who dress loosely usually have a relaxed pace of life.

But they dress well not because they are not busy, but because they focus their energy on the sense of order in life. For example, they eat regularly, rest in a self-disciplined manner, and live a rhythmic life.

When life has a rhythm, dressing will naturally have style.

I will not force myself to wear a pair of high heels that I am not good at walking in just because I have to meet a client tomorrow; nor will I give up a smooth and breathable shirt just because everyone in the office wears a suit.

The way Rosie, the eldest sister-in-law, dresses is very valuable for reference. She does not force herself to be in the occasion, but uses very daily items to establish texture.

She does not look like she has spent two hours dressing up, but she is already in good condition when she wakes up in the morning. That kind of "good condition itself" is the real source of relaxation.

• Relaxation is not not dressing up, but still free after dressing up.

"Does relaxation mean not dressing up?"

No. Absolutely not.

Tilda Swinton, every time she appears on the red carpet, she is as stunning as a sculpture. Extreme tailoring, cool lines, platinum hair and neat standing posture, at first glance, you can tell that this person has done "preparation".

But we never use "struggle" to describe her.

She may dress very sharp or very charming, but she does not look tight at all; she has a strong sense of style, but never oppresses others. She can enter a focused space like the wind, but still retains her own rhythm.

This is the true depth of relaxation: it is not not dressing up, but still not tight after dressing up. It is not giving up decoration, but not being kidnapped by decoration.

You can wear a suit, a silk long skirt, and high heels, provided that you can still walk steadily and your limbs are flexible.

The rhythm of speaking will not be affected by too complicated styling, and the freedom of movement will not be lost because of too heavy accessories.

• Summer is very suitable for loose dressing.

Many people think that summer is too hot and they can't wear style. In fact, summer is a mirror that can immediately reflect whether a person is dressed loosely.

Those styles that are too tight, too stuffy, and too airtight will only make people feel tight and restrained no matter how well designed they are. Smooth, light, and breathable outfits are more like a respect for your own body.

Damei's summer outfit is a perfect example.

She doesn't chase trends or work hard, and always wears basic styles and natural contours, but between each item, she leaves herself enough "breathing space".

For example, shirts, slit skirts, and soft-soled shoes are not designed to be avant-garde, but to be unrestrained, all for the sake of having a relaxed life today.

This ability to remain untrapped in high temperatures. Take care of the body and retain the style. Wear breathable and loose clothes.

Those women who wear loose and fashionable clothes are not born lucky, nor are they never anxious about dressing. They just learned earlier than others:

Real relaxation is not "dressing like someone", but "dressing like yourself".

Be yourself, and you don’t need to rely on clothes to prove anything. Their clothes are the clothing that allows them to move more freely, more comfortably, and better serve their lives.